Category: Writers Block
Love is?
Love is a value like many other emotions such as hate. Hate is a devaluing of something. Love is not the opposite of hate. they are pretty much similar. The opposite of both is unfeeling, shall we say emotionless?1
I value friends, I value thinking, I value education, and I value reading. Love comes from values. If you value it you feel an emotion for it. Love does has different meanings in a sense. Valuing things and sharing values with a spouse is a bit different then one with a friend..2
more love must be shown in this world, and not love in which values is demanded, but in which values are excepted as they are. Love with values demanded is not love, it’s ineffective.3
Now, I am not asking for selfless love, since I hate that concept, but rather loving selfishly.4
How I see it is, There is three kinds of love, two are foolish and one makes a lot of sense.5
One can love by giving themselves no thought and loving the others with their all. This is often demanding love. I have never seen a selfless person give love in which they fully accepted the other’s values. It’s always:6
I love you, but…7
Loving with self-centerness as a philosophy is impossible. They don’t care about others. They see themselves as the only entity and the most important in this world. This is so often called selfishness, but it is not so.8
Selfish love is seeing themselves as important and as someone but knowing since there is others in this world and that they are different and does not value the same things love and accepts them as they are. They know if they love or pay attention to them, most likely the other will give them a justified trade, as a good trade always benefits both. If they accept the other and love them for their values, they will most likely do so in return, and a friendship is easy to build. The family works the same way It depends on who your family is and what relationship they are willing to work with. ideally that's a good thing, but these days it's quite difficult... Some parents aren't meant to be parents and some must brush up on there communications skills.9
It is true that mothers tend to have a passion for their children, that would be correct, but because it's because the mother must carry the baby. How could she not, she has to do the work, and she has to be happy about no matter if she likes it or not. It all depends As I've said on what type of love she gives. 10
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I really hope this look fine. This was a bunch of my medium length reviews combined.
Rach.
No offence, but there are an increddible amount of grammatical errors here. I aggree with your points, but this can hardly be called a deffinition, it's well written but quite loosely so. If you want me to point out the errors just ask, i won't do it here in case it would irritate.